respect
DEAR CRF, IS THIS ACCEPTABLE?
Dear CRF, “My man posts selfies in a group for people that love black men and he gets responses on how handsome he is, he never talks about me on Facebook or looks at my page unless I ask why he never likes any of my pics, he locked posts on his page so I can’t see what people write. But, I live with him and see him every day and night…he swears he’s just flirting, would this be acceptable to you?” RESPONSE While it’s not acceptable to me, itRead More
DEAR CRF, HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX…
Dear CRF, I am dating someone, at the serious point. Actually planning to get engaged in the upcoming week. We went away for 4th of July and he wanted badly sex while my 4 & 7yr olds just fell asleep. I refused. It’s something I feel is not right especially that we are only gone for two days. He complained so much as if he hadn’t had sex in months. It was in fact a week prior we had sex. The current week I was caught in in construction repairsRead More
DEAR CRF, SHE PICKED HER BABY DADDY OVER ME
DearCRF, “I’m dating this woman. We’ve been together for about 9 months, and it became a serious relationship over the last 3 months. She has two children from a previous relationship. The first couple of months of our relationship was smooth. The problems started once we became serious and she introduced me to her children and had me staying by her house. Somehow, her children’s father caught wind of it and he was unhappy. He doesn’t want other men around his children he says, but I think the truth isRead More
DEAR CRF, HE SAYS SHE’S HIS WORK WIFE!
Dear CRF, “What are your thoughts on the term “work wife” or “work husband”? My coworker’s wife is out of town and a woman he calls his work wife has brought him lunch two days in a row and today she cooked him lasagna. Her reasoning was so her work husband doesn’t go hungry this week while his family is away.” RESPONSE Work spouses are great… for single people. Married people must respect their marriage first and foremost. In this instance, the husband should let his co worker know thatRead More
DISTRACTIONS
One thing I’ve learned in the fight for love is that it requires your attention. Now I know that sounds easy. But with everything going on to distract us, we tend to forget what’s important. Think I’m lying huh? Raise your hands if you text while you’re driving. Oh that didn’t apply to you? Okay. Raise your hands if you text while you are waiting a stop light. That didn’t apply either? How many of you are texting or Facebooking during Sunday service? If that doesn’t hit you, how manyRead More
