Dear CRF, I need your thoughts: a friend of mine is engaged to a married man. Her soon to be husband is recently separated (8) months. He told her when they first met he was divorced. She found out a little later that he was separated. Mind you, this is before he asked for her hand in marriage (she didn’t have to say yes). Yet, after, feelings and intimacy. she found out the estranged wife and he are still in communication (i.e text communication, he saw her on a break,Read More


Dear CRF, I am dating someone, at the serious point. Actually planning to get engaged in the upcoming week. We went away for 4th of July and he wanted badly sex while my 4 & 7yr olds just fell asleep. I refused. It’s something I feel is not right especially that we are only gone for two days. He complained so much as if he hadn’t had sex in months. It was in fact a week prior we had sex. The current week I was caught in in construction repairsRead More

Take Your Pum Pum Off the Clearance Rack

Ladies, have you discounted your pum pum? This video illustrates The Economics of Sex. See, as humans we all want sex. But as women, we are given the power to choose who we decide to give our bodies to and the value of that exchange. For some women a few drinks is the cost. For other, the cost is marriage. Where have you set your price?

I Say Yes!!! Why I Decided to Get Married

What’s up people!!!! Okay so check it out…I’m a little less than a month away from my wedding and it’s finally dawning on me that I am about to be married….I can see it now…all the ladies reading are like “awwwwwww” and all the fellas are like “you sure you want to do that?” lol. Surprisingly enough my answer to that question is “YES.” Let me explain…. I know that as a man society tells us we are not supposed to be excited about marriage right. I know we areRead More

Dear CRF: What’s Race Got To Do With It?

Dear CRF: “Recently I decided to give interracial dating a chance. In the past, I have only dated black men, but I believe that good men can be found in all races. So far I’ve been on 4 dates with a white man and things seem to be progressing well. He’s funny, intelligent and a gentleman. We haven’t really spoken about race, but it’s on the back of my mind. I wonder and worry, because I need to be with a man that has some level of consciousness about myRead More