relationship
WE CAN’T BE FRIENDS!
It’s over. You and your significant other have decided that you are ending your relationship. Now the question of remaining friends arises. You’re not sure whether it’s a good idea. And truthfully, it might not be. While I am friends with a few of my exes, not all of them make the cut. Friendships are relationships without physical intimacy. As such, the basic tenets apply. Being Loyal– if your relationship ended due to disloyalty why would you want a disloyal person as your friend? Being Dependable– friends should be reliableRead More
THE ONLY 2 RULES TO DATING YOU NEED!
The excitement builds, and you have talked about this day all day with your girlfriends. You start prepping hours in advance and still only manage to be ready just in time. You try on several outfits and nothing fits just right. You end up going with the first thing you tried on and feel great about it. A guy comes to your house preferably bearing a gift (some nice flowers, or another simple gift), something small is fine. He knocks on the door (not blows the horn like an idiot,Read More
BEFORE YOU CHASE MR. RIGHT AWAY
Congratulations! You’ve made it to another new year! The Lord has answered your prayers by entrusting a man with your heart who actually treasures you for the person you are. He’s not caught up in the superficial craving Serena, Halle, or the next Kardashian on deck. No, no, no no, he wants you in all of your muffin top, flat back side glory! So now that you have met your Mr. Right, I have a few tips to keep you from chasing him away. I see you looking bewildered butRead More
ARE YOU SPEAKING HIS LOVE LANGUAGE?
If you aren’t speaking his love language are you truly loving him to the best of your ability? Before you answer that question, ask yourself, Am I loving him the way I want to be loved or the way he needs to be loved. Yes, there is a difference. Love is much more than just a feeling. It is a series of actions and choices one makes every day that illustrate that you hold your love interest dear to you. However, your actions may say love to you while theyRead More
CONFESSIONS OF AN ENABLER
I ran into my ex the other day. This was not the first time our paths crossed after I escaped the toxic, abusive relationship I had with him. But, it was the first time we spoke. After exchanging pleasantries I noticed he was drunk; not tipsy, but drunk…sloppy. That is a regular state of being for him. Through the night I watched as this man groped random women, stumbled over his own two feet, and come close to getting into several fist fights (yes, I stepped in to save himRead More
