Divorce

 
 

CASE OF THE EX: WHAT YOU GONNA DO?

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“It’s after midnight and she’s on your phone, saying come over cause she’s all alone. I could tell it was your ex by your tone. Why is she calling now after so long . . . What you gonna do when you can’t say no? When the feelings start to show boy I really need to know. How you gonna act, how you gonna handle that? What you gonna do when she wants you back? (Case of the Ex, R&B Song by Mya) This 1996 R&B hit asks some reallyRead More


HE WAS HER LOVER AND HER SECRETARY, HE DESERVES SPOUSAL SUPPORT

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Eleven years of sacrifice and you can leave me at the drop of a dime! Who remembers MJB crooning those words on the Waiting to Exhale soundtrack? I know I do. While Kendu may not have been Mary’s secretary he was her manager and after 12 years of marriage no one should be surprised that he is asking for spousal support. Unfortunately many men and women are attempting to shame Kendu for his alimony request because well, gender discrimination. There is a long list of women who were not withRead More


4 REASONS WHY A 50/50 MARRIAGE WILL LEAD YOU TO A 100% DIVORCE

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When I was younger I loved the rapper Trina. I thought she was so dope. Sure she was a little dirty with her lyrics, but she was also bold and unapologetic which I love. I remember she had a song talking about wanting a 50/50 love. While I enjoyed the song I knew something was wrong. Who the hell wants half of a person’s love. I definitely do not. That’s bound to lead to a divorce. I would like to think she meant she wanted someone who was meeting herRead More


EVERYBODY NEEDS A PRENUP

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I don’t even know why this is even an issue! Every married couple should have a prenuptial agreement. The rules are very simple. Whoever instigates the divorce walks away with nothing. That’s right. No car. No house. No custody. Just the clothes on your back and in the closet. After walking away with no assets, seventy five percent of your future earnings for the next ten years goes to the spouse that you are leaving. Now I hear what you’re saying. Why have a prenup if you lose everything? Well,Read More


DEAR CRF, MY FRIEND IS ENGAGED TO A MARRIED MAN

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Dear CRF, I need your thoughts: a friend of mine is engaged to a married man. Her soon to be husband is recently separated (8) months. He told her when they first met he was divorced. She found out a little later that he was separated. Mind you, this is before he asked for her hand in marriage (she didn’t have to say yes). Yet, after, feelings and intimacy. she found out the estranged wife and he are still in communication (i.e text communication, he saw her on a break,Read More


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