CASE OF THE EX: WHAT YOU GONNA DO?
“It’s after midnight and she’s on your phone, saying come over cause she’s all alone. I could tell it was your ex by your tone. Why is she calling now after so long . . . What you gonna do when you can’t say no? When the feelings start to show boy I really need to know. How you gonna act, how you gonna handle that? What you gonna do when she wants you back? (Case of the Ex, R&B Song by Mya) This 1996 R&B hit asks some reallyRead More
WE CAN’T BE FRIENDS!
It’s over. You and your significant other have decided that you are ending your relationship. Now the question of remaining friends arises. You’re not sure whether it’s a good idea. And truthfully, it might not be. While I am friends with a few of my exes, not all of them make the cut. Friendships are relationships without physical intimacy. As such, the basic tenets apply. Being Loyal– if your relationship ended due to disloyalty why would you want a disloyal person as your friend? Being Dependable– friends should be reliableRead More
DON’T CLAIM HIM, HE DON’T WANT TO BE CLAIMED
Taraji Henson, one of my favorite actresses and Howard University Alumnus, has some dating advice for the single ladies. During a recent interview with Steve Harvey, of Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man fame, Taraji said she refuses to claim any man publicly that has not proposed to her. Does she have a point? How often have you rolled your eyes at the woman who’s Facebook relationship status seems to change once a quarter? One day she is singing the praises of her new found beau; he’s herRead More
WHAT YOU WON’T DO THE NEXT MAN WILL
I’m sure we’ve all heard the colloquial saying that one man’s trash is another man’s treasure, but why is it that another man has to get it appraised before you realize how much she was really worth? She was in your possession for so long, that you didn’t pay attention to her value. At the end of the day, what you won’t do the next man will! Well, good women don’t depreciate in value. I just find it ironic that men want the women that they discard back once somebodyRead More
DWIGHT HOWARD: IT SEEMS LIKE YOU’RE PETTY
Last week news and gossip outlets reported that Dwight Howard, center for the Houston Rockets, and multi-millionaire has begun garnishing money from the accounts of the mother of his child, Royce Reed. Reports say that Howard received what possibly could have been the entire balance of Reed’s credit union account, $2,432.64. This amount is being garnished to collect on a $535,000 judgment stemming from a defamation lawsuit Howard won after Reed breached the terms of their gag order by speaking about their relationship during her stint as a Basketball WivesRead More