love
THIS VALENTINE’S DAY KEEP THE FIRE BURNING
What do you do on Valentine’s Day when the spark is gone? When the flames burn out the passion and romance is gone. Many in relationships are wondering how two people could get to such a place where they just don’t feel the same way about one other. Reflecting upon the way it use to be when the fire burned and being apart for a moment was hard. Remember the first Valentine’s Day you spent together? Remember when things were so good that when you were apart all you couldRead More
4 REASONS WHY A 50/50 MARRIAGE WILL LEAD YOU TO A 100% DIVORCE
When I was younger I loved the rapper Trina. I thought she was so dope. Sure she was a little dirty with her lyrics, but she was also bold and unapologetic which I love. I remember she had a song talking about wanting a 50/50 love. While I enjoyed the song I knew something was wrong. Who the hell wants half of a person’s love. I definitely do not. That’s bound to lead to a divorce. I would like to think she meant she wanted someone who was meeting herRead More
PLAY THE GAME TO WIN!
On my way into work today, I was perusing some comments on a topic in a group. The topic was based around how to handle the period between dating, and “exclusivity” with regards to sharing information, and a person’s sexual exploits with people OUTSIDE of the dating relationship (aka how you play the game). The answers were diverse, but as I was reading over them some trends emerged that caused a realization: Many of us are failing in our committed relationships and marriages, because we fail to prepare properly forRead More
I KNEW SHE WAS THE ONE
When people talk about marriage, a phrase that is often utilized as a metaphor for the process, is the idea of “two becoming one”. I was asked recently to describe the intrinsic qualities that separated my wife from the pack, and how I knew she was The One. The truth is, that there is not a set of “bullet points on a list” that a person can check off, to achieve the “one” status, in a man’s heart necessarily. But in MY particular case, there were definitely some defining characteristicsRead More
IS YOUR WORK LIFE AFFECTING YOUR LOVE LIFE?
Have you noticed that your work life has been having a negative impact on your love life? You spend 8-10 hours a day in the office, factory, store, etc and then you come home too tired or stressed to engage with your loved ones. This becomes a routine and the disconnect between you and your family grows. Now there are arguments or even worse, the silent treatment. Here are a few things you can implement into your time on the job that will help you feel better when you getRead More
