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EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER
R&B songstress Vivian Green sang a song where she described a relationship with a man as an emotional rollercoaster. You see, things would go very well for a certain amount of time, and then here comes the free fall. Unlike the roller coasters at Six Flags, these types of relationships aren’t fun as the dive into a downward spiral. The drop in rollercoaster relationships usually entails cheating, abuse (mental, physical, verbal, etc.) and down right disrespect. Only to be followed by promises to do and be better. Which of course,Read More
CODE RED FLAG ALERT: POLICE SEARCH FOR FEMALE ARSONIST
The Huffington Post is reporting that the police are searching for a woman who set a man’s car ablaze yesterday evening after he refused to buy her a McFlurry. The unidentified woman and man were seen arguing at a Florida McDonald’s. During the argument the woman threatens to “blow it up.” She then pours a liquid all over the car and tosses a match. When the authorities arrived the woman had already fled the scene. We will add to this code red flag alert as details emerge.
DESPERATION AND THE SCARCITY MINDSET
Have you found yourself being desperate for a relationship so much that you’ve allowed the wrong relationships to manifest in your life? That could be due to your mindset; the mindset of scarcity manifests itself as desperation. What does it mean to be desperate? Merriam-Webster defines desperation as “a state of hopelessness leading to rashness.” This desperation can be illustrated when we begin to accept behaviors or circumstances that if we were acting rational or logical we would not accept. Some examples of these behaviors/circumstances include cheating, domestic violence, stealing;Read More
DEAR CRF, I AM READY TO LEAVE
Dear CRF, I’m currently in a relationship with someone I have known for 5 years. We remained friends for a long time before we decide to be in a relationship. 1, because I needed for him to be correct before we even went there and 2, because I wanted to be ready. In that whole time (4 years I don’t count the first year) we do things for each other that people in a relationships do even though we were just friends. Anything you can think of we do forRead More
STAY OUT OF IT
How many times have you been in a situation where a friend is having problems with their partner and asked you to step in on some level? I know we all have and it can be very frustrating. You don’t want to tell your friend no, but you also don’t want to step into your friend’s relationship. If there is one thing I have learned, it is to stay all the way out of it, it is neither your place nor your business! This topic was really on my mindRead More
