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IT GOES DOWN IN THE DM
What goes down in the DM? All types of shenanigans it seems. Repeatedly, cheaters are using the private messaging functions of their social media profiles to seek out knowing or unknowing partners willing to have an affair with them. They sometimes pretend to be single and other times they aren’t even wise enough to change their relationship status or hide the photos of them and their families. No, why bother put any respect on their relationship? They only care about fulfilling their salacious appetites for something more, something other. Today,Read More
DEAR CRF, IS THIS ACCEPTABLE?
Dear CRF, “My man posts selfies in a group for people that love black men and he gets responses on how handsome he is, he never talks about me on Facebook or looks at my page unless I ask why he never likes any of my pics, he locked posts on his page so I can’t see what people write. But, I live with him and see him every day and night…he swears he’s just flirting, would this be acceptable to you?” RESPONSE While it’s not acceptable to me, itRead More
ONLY FOOLS RUSH IN
I miss the days when we took time to get to know one another before we jumped head first into sex, situationships, and relationships. Remember when you would meet someone within your network of friends/acquaintances and everyone would hang out together, no pressure? Just being yourself because there were no expectations. Well times have changed; we are now in a popcorn society. Everyone wants what they want now; but when asked, nobody seems to really know what it is they actually want or need. People are no longer building friendshipsRead More
DESPERATION AND THE SCARCITY MINDSET
Have you found yourself being desperate for a relationship so much that you’ve allowed the wrong relationships to manifest in your life? That could be due to your mindset; the mindset of scarcity manifests itself as desperation. What does it mean to be desperate? Merriam-Webster defines desperation as “a state of hopelessness leading to rashness.” This desperation can be illustrated when we begin to accept behaviors or circumstances that if we were acting rational or logical we would not accept. Some examples of these behaviors/circumstances include cheating, domestic violence, stealing;Read More
DEAR CRF, HE SAYS ALL THE RIGHT THINGS
Dear CRF, There is a guy who posts all the right things on his social media page. We began inboxing one another. He posts cute little messages to me publicly on either his posts or mine. We exchanged numbers but he still messages me more on social media than directly using my phone number. I have initiated communication via cell and he responds. But he hasn’t called or formally asked me out yet. What could this mean. RESPONSE It means you have become infatuated with an internet pimp. You haveRead More
