dating
ASK HIM ABOUT HIS INTENTIONS
You recently met a guy. You find him attractive, he finds you attractive so you start developing a quasi friendship to get to know one another. He texts, likes your photos and posts on social media, he may even give you a ring on the phone from time to time. You’re beginning to like him and want to allow yourself to be vulnerable for the possibility of something more to be built from the foundation that seemed to start out so great. My suggestion is to wait until you’ve hadRead More
5 RED FLAGS YOU’RE DATING A F*CK BOY
Last week I got an idea to write about the hierarchy of fuck boys, as if there were some sort of level that made it ok to be a fuck boy. Upon realization that there is never an acceptable amount of fuck boy that would make a man Mr. Right I decided not to bother pointing out the differences between fuck boys because well, at the end of the day, a fuck boy is still a fuck boy. Or, like I like to refer to them Mr. Wrong aka aRead More
BUY YOU A DRINK? NAH SON! I DON’T PAY TO PLAY!
It’s 2016 and it seems that some folks would like to see certain established dating/relationship rules changed. I am for some of them. However, I will never be for the woman needs to pay to play game. Don’t demand that I buy your drink when we first meet, ask me to go Dutch (I’m Jamaican) on our initial dates, or expect me to move in with you to go half on your bills. I’m not that modern of a woman nor do I want to be. In fact, a fewRead More
IT’S OK TO APPROACH HIM
In 2016, a year when we have a woman vying to be the next President of the United States, it is surprising to see how many women are stuck with the old mindset that a woman should never initiate or approach a man. Ladies, please, for the good of mankind, let go that antiquated belief. If you come across a guy you like it’s ok to approach him, spark up a conversation, flirt, and give yours or ask for his number. Approaching a man doesn’t mean that you are desperate.Read More
BOOK REVIEW: Teach Me How to Love
It is a process, but the healing has begun. You are now able to see the part you played in the demise of your previous relationships. You are now ready to be open, vulnerable, and let love in. But you are still afraid. Afraid that you still don’t know how to love, or even worse, than you cannot identify when true love is being offered to you. Have no fear, this book is exactly what you need to get passed those walls you’ve built up around your heart and allowRead More
