dating
THE ONLY 2 RULES TO DATING YOU NEED!
The excitement builds, and you have talked about this day all day with your girlfriends. You start prepping hours in advance and still only manage to be ready just in time. You try on several outfits and nothing fits just right. You end up going with the first thing you tried on and feel great about it. A guy comes to your house preferably bearing a gift (some nice flowers, or another simple gift), something small is fine. He knocks on the door (not blows the horn like an idiot,Read More
YOU’RE SINGLE BECAUSE YOU’RE FAKE!
Being fake makes you a Code Red Flag. There are no good men, they are either married, in jail, or homosexual. There are no good women; they are either chasing after Mr. Wrong, hoes, or homosexual. We have all heard some derivative of both of these statements. We may have even said them ourselves. However, at a certain age, and point in your life you have to start asking if you are the problem. Think about it, if you seem to only attract the wrong type, and have been chronicallyRead More
PLAY THE GAME TO WIN!
On my way into work today, I was perusing some comments on a topic in a group. The topic was based around how to handle the period between dating, and “exclusivity” with regards to sharing information, and a person’s sexual exploits with people OUTSIDE of the dating relationship (aka how you play the game). The answers were diverse, but as I was reading over them some trends emerged that caused a realization: Many of us are failing in our committed relationships and marriages, because we fail to prepare properly forRead More
STOP BEING A NICE GUY
All the time I hear these self proclaimed “nice guys” saying that women don’t want nice guys. That women want thugs, gangsters, celebrities, or rich dudes. The previous statement isn’t even true though. Yes, there are women who have these type of men as their preference, but this isn’t the reason these men get women. But they all do have something in common. But it’s not about them, it’s about you! The problem with nice guys is that they don’t understand women. They believe that being nice to a womanRead More
PLAYERS OF A FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER
Have you ever found yourself questioning why you or your significant other is friends with a certain someone? The friendship sometimes gives you pause because you recognize red flags that you are hoping that you don’t possess and that your mate doesn’t have and has been successful at hiding from you. Well, don’t be so hard on yourself. More times than not, players of a feather flock together. That friend who is known to get into fights when drunk. Guess what? Your mate either condones the behavior or displays similarRead More
