cheaters
DEAR CRF, IS THIS ACCEPTABLE?
Dear CRF, “My man posts selfies in a group for people that love black men and he gets responses on how handsome he is, he never talks about me on Facebook or looks at my page unless I ask why he never likes any of my pics, he locked posts on his page so I can’t see what people write. But, I live with him and see him every day and night…he swears he’s just flirting, would this be acceptable to you?” RESPONSE While it’s not acceptable to me, itRead More
DEAR CRF, I DON’T TRUST MY BFFs FIANCÉ
Dear CRF, “Ok so my BFF is supposed to be getting married her wedding is only a few weeks away. We all have our stuff done- dresses shoes appts- all the things a bride and her maids are supposed to do. She has gotten all the response cards back from our side but none from his. We found out that her fiancé never took care of his tux or his groomsmen. She never sees him Monday through Friday just the weekends and thats every couple of weeks. He leaves SundayRead More
EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER
R&B songstress Vivian Green sang a song where she described a relationship with a man as an emotional rollercoaster. You see, things would go very well for a certain amount of time, and then here comes the free fall. Unlike the roller coasters at Six Flags, these types of relationships aren’t fun as the dive into a downward spiral. The drop in rollercoaster relationships usually entails cheating, abuse (mental, physical, verbal, etc.) and down right disrespect. Only to be followed by promises to do and be better. Which of course,Read More
I DON’T WANT MY WIFE TO DO THAT: THE MADONNA/WHORE COMPLEX
Today, I participated in a conversation about men who forbade, or rather, disliked for their girlfriends, fiancés, and wives to submit to certain sexual behaviors. As a homophobic society, yes even in 2015, the first thought of many was that a man with this preference must be in the closet or a down low gay man. I believe that is ignorance and fear speaking as I have spoken with quite a few straight men who rather their wives be Madonnas in the bedroom (virginal, inexperienced, pure). As such, I thoughtRead More
BEING NUMBER ONE IS NOT ENOUGH!
This blog was inspired by a conversation that I overheard. No, I wasn’t ear hustling, it’s just that this female was so loud on the bus you couldn’t help but to eavesdrop on the conversation. She was on the phone talking to another female apparently. It appears that it had to do with her boyfriend. She told the female on the phone “Ain’t you tired of being the side chick? Regardless of what you do, he’s always gonna come home to me. That’s my man, and you need to getRead More
