cheaters
I KNOW WHY YOU STAY
Why do women stay with their man after they had done them wrong? For starters, love is a powerful emotion, and like any other emotion, it does not ascribe to the laws of logic. I’m still wondering if we have discretion over choosing the ones that we love, but I’m digressing. A wrong is a wrong, but sometimes it depends on what type of wrong doing that occurred. Many women in domestic violence situations stay out of fear. Many women with men that cheat on them stay out of theRead More
DESPERATION AND THE SCARCITY MINDSET
Have you found yourself being desperate for a relationship so much that you’ve allowed the wrong relationships to manifest in your life? That could be due to your mindset; the mindset of scarcity manifests itself as desperation. What does it mean to be desperate? Merriam-Webster defines desperation as “a state of hopelessness leading to rashness.” This desperation can be illustrated when we begin to accept behaviors or circumstances that if we were acting rational or logical we would not accept. Some examples of these behaviors/circumstances include cheating, domestic violence, stealing;Read More
DEAR CRF, I DON’T LOVE HIM
Dear Code Red Flag, “I have been with my man for 15 years. I found out he’s been cheating for the last 2 yrs paying her bills. She’s not the only one there have been others in the last 2 years. I also found out he had a sexual relationship with the woman we adopted a baby from back in 2005. God knows how long that lasted because she still calls!!! He wants to work it out with me. Will I be stupid to seek counseling with him? I don’tRead More
DEAR CRF, IS HE IN A RELATIONSHIP?
DEAR CRF, “Here’s my new question. There’s a guy that works at the grocery store near my job. For months he’s been giving me looks, asking me how i am and asking to hang out, if i have a boyfriend etc. I had a boyfriend so i couldn’t do anything. Now i am single. The problem is, on his Facebook page it says he’s in a relationship w some girl. Today i finally let him give me his number, but before that i asked if he has a girlfriend. HeRead More
A CHAIR IS STILL A CHAIR, EVEN IF THERE IS NO ONE SITTING THERE.
Ladies / Fellas have a cup of tea with me~ 8.8 years is the average length of an American marriage. Who are you? Are you who you were told to be, or who you were destined to become? By being blatantly honest about who you’re, allows others to be blatantly honest about who they are. Stipulations, boundaries, rules, consequences, cheating, lies, alibis, pain, joy, togetherness, break ups, and make-are all entities that one thinks of when they think of a committed intimate relationship. What does one think of when theyRead More
