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DEAR CRF, HE WANTS TO DATE ME

Dear Code Red Flag, “So a man wants to date me. We go to dinner, he disappears for days after. He said he would call and doesnt reply to my texts etc. Then days later texts and says hey. Seems like a red flag to me…, what say you?” CRF RESPONSE Sounds to me like you went on a first date with a guy you like. Good for you. Go on more first dates with other men you like. That way you’re not waiting by the phone for this guyRead More


THE GOOD’S KEEPER

Fellas, if a lady has not agreed to a commitment with you, YOU’RE NOT THE KEEPER OF THE GOODS (In my Maury voice). If she talks to you, texts you, goes out with you, and she does not CLAIM you, then YOU’RE NOT THE KEEPER OF THE GOODS. Soooooooo, when you hear she may be allowing another man her attention, go ahead with that “These Hoes Ain’t Loyal Crap” (save that for real hoes). That is just a cop out to keep from having to work for what you want.Read More


It’s Better To Be Single Than In A Bad Relationship

We’ve all been there—that sick feeling in your stomach and the heavy wave of anxiety that washes over you when you realize your relationship is definitely not working. Maybe you’ve been fighting about everything, nit-picking each other to death, or dealing with more serious issues like infidelity or polar-opposite life goals. But here’s the part that’s often even harder: Deciding whether or not to stay in the comfort of this crappy relationship or go back out into the dating world, which, from the outside, can look like a very scaryRead More


Are You Available?

The single life is great! Singles get to go on dates, meet new people, and expand their horizons. But there comes a time when a single man or woman wants to start dating with a purpose, instead of for entertainment. Just remember that dating with a purpose requires you to be AVAILABLE and open to being vulnerable with another. So how does one know if they’re available? You’re available if: – You’re not playing games – Don’t have an ex who you keep on the bench – Believe that thereRead More


Know Better, Choose Better

Women truly dictate the dating market when it comes to men. Whatever it is women glorify, that generation of men will adjust to becoming. See if women really wanted better men (men who were gainfully employed or business owners, treated them as a high quality female subjects to earn, not a sexual objects to attain, were educated, were creative, etc.) they would simply want better men. But see just as the average consumer believes that whatever is on the market, is all that’s available with little variety in between. WomenRead More


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