Women truly dictate the dating market when it comes to men. Whatever it is women glorify, that generation of men will adjust to becoming. See if women really wanted better men (men who were gainfully employed or business owners, treated them as a high quality female subjects to earn, not a sexual objects to attain, were educated, were creative, etc.) they would simply want better men. But see just as the average consumer believes that whatever is on the market, is all that’s available with little variety in between. Women think that instead of wanting a good man whom will treat them greatly, they must compromise because of the rumored shortage on organic goods aka good men who will treat them greatly.

Grapes cost more than a bag of chips, the bag of chips are closer to the check out line than the grapes, the chips are immediately more satisfying than the grapes, however the grapes are way better for your body over the long term. Ladies these good men who will treat you great are those grapes. They aren’t marketed, they aren’t convenient, they aren’t cheap but they are best for your life. See these chips are the men who will are immediately satisfying to your needs. Those chips are; men who won’t commit, men who aren’t willing to open up their hearts to receive love, men who are abusive, men who conditional parasites. Those needs by women are; companionships, loneliness, sexual satisfaction, women, peer pressure and emotional release.

See ladies, the more that you buy these chips of men, the more available they become, but as you complain about the chips you are continuously buying, the more of a variety they come in to appease your pleasures. Meanwhile the grapes that are un-consumed in the fruit section is rotting out due to not being picked by the consumer. Just as every grape isn’t overlooked, every grape has it’s own expiration date. For those that do expire while being unpicked, becomes dried out until it takes the form of a raisin, smaller, less nutritious and harder.

See ladies, there’s a reason why chips are marketed on commercials and grapes aren’t. Because it’s not what you want, because what you say you want and what you actually go for are two things. So when you say you want a good man who treats you greatly, you have to keep in mind that in order to get him, you’ll have to make good choices that come at the great expense of not always receiving that immediate need. #begoodorBeGreat
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Written by, Demescos Chamber, Coach and Founder of Be Good or Be Great