relationships
ASK HIM ABOUT HIS INTENTIONS
You recently met a guy. You find him attractive, he finds you attractive so you start developing a quasi friendship to get to know one another. He texts, likes your photos and posts on social media, he may even give you a ring on the phone from time to time. You’re beginning to like him and want to allow yourself to be vulnerable for the possibility of something more to be built from the foundation that seemed to start out so great. My suggestion is to wait until you’ve hadRead More
5 RED FLAGS YOU’RE DATING A F*CK BOY
Last week I got an idea to write about the hierarchy of fuck boys, as if there were some sort of level that made it ok to be a fuck boy. Upon realization that there is never an acceptable amount of fuck boy that would make a man Mr. Right I decided not to bother pointing out the differences between fuck boys because well, at the end of the day, a fuck boy is still a fuck boy. Or, like I like to refer to them Mr. Wrong aka aRead More
YOU SAY YOU ARE READY FOR LOVE, BUT HOW READY ARE YOU
You say you are ready for love but are you truly ready to accept love into your life? I mean are you truly ready? Or are you allowing your views on love, relationships, and men to manifest red flags and toxic relationships into your life? In 2015, and the years before the rhetoric towards black love was pretty much the same: all men cheat, men ain’t ish, black love is dead, black women aren’t wanted. Etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. If you hold any of these beliefs then don’t be surprised thatRead More
5 RED FLAGS SHE’S MORE THAN JUST A FRIEND
You’ve been dating your beau for a while now but recently he has a new friend, a new female friend. You’re not usually the jealous type and you don’t want to chuck up your uneasiness about this new relationship as just insecurity but how do you know for sure? Well here are 5 red flags your gut instinct is right and she is more than just a friend. 1. She is unfriendly towards you. You attempt to extend an olive branch to your man’s new female friend and she isRead More
4 BIG MISCONCEPTIONS MEN MAKE ABOUT WOMEN WHILE DATING
So much of dating gets lost in the misperceptions and the preconceived notions we have about one another. Just like women have misconceptions of men, men have misconceptions of women as well. Here are few that are more common than you think!! 1. Women consider effort being “thirsty.” I’ve discussed this term thoroughly with men and women and here is my conclusion. This idea of “thirsty” has seemed to give men an embedded excuse to not risk getting their feelings hurt or face rejection. While men are worried about beingRead More
