jealousy
MISTRESS & WIFE DEAD IN APPARENT MURDER SUICIDE
Kidnapping, a high speed Chase across state lines, murder, and suicide. This isn’t the plot for a new movie. It’s the sad reality for a grieving family today. Authorities say that Sandra Barnett, a 58 year old special needs teacher from Ellenwood, Georgia was kidnapped from her home by her husband’s mistress. The kidnapping was reported by Barnett’s fried who saw a suspicious looking black Durango truck parked outside the victim’s home. According to those close to her, Barnett had just replaced the locks on the gate to her yardRead More
JEALOUS: WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU ARE JEALOUS OF YOUR SPOUSE
Jealousy can be a horrible disease, crippling you as you pine for what another person has. What do you do, however, when you find jealousy within your relationship? It can be so easy to be jealous of your spouse; maybe they have a better job than you or they get more attention than you do. Maybe you are also jealous of the role that they play in your relationship (i.e. “why do I always have to be the responsible one, yet they can be so carefree?”). I have found myselfRead More
DEAR CRF, HE’S JUST A FRIEND
DEAR CRF, “My man says that he’s jealous when I’m around a male friend of mine who I’ve had a past with but it’s over and done with. However, my man says he feels that my male friend still has feelings for me. Should I stop hanging out with him or should I tell my man to check his jealousy? Is this a #CRF?” CRF RESPONSE It’s easy to call him jealous and insecure but in this situation, if roles were reversed, how secure would you be? I’m not sayingRead More
Make the Decision to be Happy and Whole
Some people have damaged childhood i.e. memories/pain that filter into adulthood. As caretakers, we are responsible for building positive self-esteem by modeling and showing love, appreciation, acceptance and demonstrating conflict resolution is a positive light. Furthermore, in order to have healthy relationships, you must work on the inner demons that cause you to become stagnant, withdrawn and lonely. Most people make the mistake of carrying the same negative baggage into a new relationship only to see it destroyed because of the same patterns/issues i.e. infidelity, insecurity, jealousy, low self-esteem. YouRead More
