infidelity
EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER
R&B songstress Vivian Green sang a song where she described a relationship with a man as an emotional rollercoaster. You see, things would go very well for a certain amount of time, and then here comes the free fall. Unlike the roller coasters at Six Flags, these types of relationships aren’t fun as the dive into a downward spiral. The drop in rollercoaster relationships usually entails cheating, abuse (mental, physical, verbal, etc.) and down right disrespect. Only to be followed by promises to do and be better. Which of course,Read More
I DON’T WANT MY WIFE TO DO THAT: THE MADONNA/WHORE COMPLEX
Today, I participated in a conversation about men who forbade, or rather, disliked for their girlfriends, fiancés, and wives to submit to certain sexual behaviors. As a homophobic society, yes even in 2015, the first thought of many was that a man with this preference must be in the closet or a down low gay man. I believe that is ignorance and fear speaking as I have spoken with quite a few straight men who rather their wives be Madonnas in the bedroom (virginal, inexperienced, pure). As such, I thoughtRead More
CODE RED FLAG ALERT: JONATHAN WALKER KILLS FAMILY IN JEALOUS RAGE
CODE RED FLAG ALERT: The New York Post reports that early Saturday morning Johnathan Walker, armed with a .45 caliber weapon, entered the home of Shantai Hale, the mother of his 2 children, and shot his 7 and 12 year old daughters, their mother, and grandmother before driving off and killing himself. Sources are saying that he flew into a rage and attempted to kill the entire family because he believed Shantai was being unfaithful. His 12 year old daughter, the lone survivor of this massacre, called the police and letRead More
BEING NUMBER ONE IS NOT ENOUGH!
This blog was inspired by a conversation that I overheard. No, I wasn’t ear hustling, it’s just that this female was so loud on the bus you couldn’t help but to eavesdrop on the conversation. She was on the phone talking to another female apparently. It appears that it had to do with her boyfriend. She told the female on the phone “Ain’t you tired of being the side chick? Regardless of what you do, he’s always gonna come home to me. That’s my man, and you need to getRead More
DESPERATION AND THE SCARCITY MINDSET
Have you found yourself being desperate for a relationship so much that you’ve allowed the wrong relationships to manifest in your life? That could be due to your mindset; the mindset of scarcity manifests itself as desperation. What does it mean to be desperate? Merriam-Webster defines desperation as “a state of hopelessness leading to rashness.” This desperation can be illustrated when we begin to accept behaviors or circumstances that if we were acting rational or logical we would not accept. Some examples of these behaviors/circumstances include cheating, domestic violence, stealing;Read More
