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DEAR CRF, HE MAKES ME FEEL BAD WHEN I ASK HIM FOR MONEY

Money doesn't grow on trees

Dear CRF, “I’m a stay at home mom. Right now I have 4 kids and my husband works. It seems like lately everytime I ask my husband for some money he’s bitching and complaining about it! He doesn’t buy anything in the house he gives me money and I go shop for everything that we need. From kids clothes to household product, stuff for him and myself when I don’t feel guilty for purchasing something new for myself. He has no clue as to how much anything cost but thenRead More


THE PERVERT NEXT DOOR

What happens when you find out your next door neighbor has been arrested on charges of child pornography? If you’re Massachusettes resident, Nicole Pelletier, mother of two, you become a vigilante who seeks justice through a swift butt kicking. The neighbor, 61 year old Gary Spring, was arrested on possession of child pornography charges on September 19th. On September 22nd, Spring was startled awake when Pelletier punched him in the face as he slept in his bed. She later called the police to report her crime, telling the police dispatcherRead More


I Hate My Fiancé’s Mother

Dear CRF, “What do you do when your soon to be mother in law is a certified bitch and your man won’t defend you against her disrespect?” CRF RESPONSE Having problems with mother in laws is not a new phenomenon. It happens more often that you’d think. I don’t know the women so I won’t speculate on her reasons for treating you harshly. What I can discuss with you is how to handle her, if you choose, and your fiancé. Let’s begin with him. First, let’s show some empathy becauseRead More


Let’s Get Married

Quick question, which is more desirous of marriage – men or women? I think the easy answer would be women. And how could it not, when, since the womb, women have been reared towards monogamy and, ultimately, marriage. From their parents teaching them to find a good husband to settle down with to every Disney cartoon with a prince and a princess hooking up and falling in love happily ever after, influence of marriage is everywhere. Even though this may seem harmless, it could lead to added and unwanted pressure,Read More


Marry You? What’s in it for Me?

If you’re a fan of the Code Red Flag Facebook page you may know that recently I created a group page allowing members to send in questions that they don’t need to be anonymous. Yesterday, one in particular stood out. Check it out below: This question is mostly for the men: Gentlemen, is marriage beneficial for you? If so what are the benefits you find in marriage? I ask because several men frown upon marriage (including married men) they claim it’s mostly beneficial for the woman. Ladies chime in please.Read More


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