exes
WHY DID I GET MARRIED . . . WITHOUT A PRENUP?
Actress Tasha Smith, of Why Did I Get Married fame, was recently ordered to pay her ex-husband $7,000 a month in spousal support, also known as alimony. This is in addition to the $50,000 she compensated him back in November (likely as alimony pendente) while they awaited the final divorce decree. Some are calling her husband out as being less than a man for seeking and accepting spousal support, but women need to be mindful that with equal rights (benefits) come equal responsibilities (liabilities). As such, just as many menRead More
DWIGHT HOWARD: IT SEEMS LIKE YOU’RE PETTY
Last week news and gossip outlets reported that Dwight Howard, center for the Houston Rockets, and multi-millionaire has begun garnishing money from the accounts of the mother of his child, Royce Reed. Reports say that Howard received what possibly could have been the entire balance of Reed’s credit union account, $2,432.64. This amount is being garnished to collect on a $535,000 judgment stemming from a defamation lawsuit Howard won after Reed breached the terms of their gag order by speaking about their relationship during her stint as a Basketball WivesRead More
10 THINGS LEAVING A 3 YEAR RELATIONSHIP TAUGHT ME
I’ve been avoiding telling this story for quite some time, as it’s a hard one for me. Many of you may (or may not) know that Mister K is not my boyfriend’s father. I was actually with his dad for about 3 years before I finally decided I had enough and left. It wasn’t an easy decision, and it definitely wasn’t made overnight. But after years of dealing with it, I realized I deserved better – we deserved better. We met when we were young – i was only 17.Read More
DEAR CRF, SHOULD I DELETE THE PICS?
DEAR CRF, “Is it a code red flag to have older pictures of your ex on your phone/facebook when dating someone new? For perspective you were with your ex for about 8 years and with this new person for about a month. Or is it a code red flag for the new person to be upset over old pictures and request that you delete them?” CRF RESPONSE Everyone has a history. Be more concerned with your present and future with your new mate. Don’t go looking for red flags whereRead More
DEAR CRF, HE’S JUST A FRIEND
DEAR CRF, “My man says that he’s jealous when I’m around a male friend of mine who I’ve had a past with but it’s over and done with. However, my man says he feels that my male friend still has feelings for me. Should I stop hanging out with him or should I tell my man to check his jealousy? Is this a #CRF?” CRF RESPONSE It’s easy to call him jealous and insecure but in this situation, if roles were reversed, how secure would you be? I’m not sayingRead More
