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WHY DID WE STOP DATING?
“This isn’t what I expected! How did things change so dramatically? Dating you was cool, but as soon as we got into a relationship, things have changed. It’s no longer fun and I’m more overwhelmed with responsibilities than I ever was before.” I’ve come to realize that most people don’t understand that there is a big adjustment when you go from dating to being in a relationship. And people naively assume that if you had a great time dating the person, then the relationship should be a breeze. But likeRead More
I THOUGHT HE WOULD BE A GOOD MAN BECAUSE HE TREATED HIS MAMA LIKE A QUEEN
They say that the way that a man treats his mother will speak volumes about how he will treat you. While there can certainly be truth to this, I wouldn’t want you to get your hopes caught up in this unproven and careless theory. I would hope that you would dig deeper and look for more sources to grasp a better idea of who your man truly is and how he really behaves. Don’t worry, I’m here to help you out with this. First thing first. Let me explain whyRead More
EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER
R&B songstress Vivian Green sang a song where she described a relationship with a man as an emotional rollercoaster. You see, things would go very well for a certain amount of time, and then here comes the free fall. Unlike the roller coasters at Six Flags, these types of relationships aren’t fun as the dive into a downward spiral. The drop in rollercoaster relationships usually entails cheating, abuse (mental, physical, verbal, etc.) and down right disrespect. Only to be followed by promises to do and be better. Which of course,Read More
HOW TO MAKE YOUR MAN TRUSTWORTHY?
It’s late and she notices her man’s phone has received another message while he is in the shower. The temptation is overwhelming for her to hop out the bed and check the message before he does. She resists. When he gets out the shower, she tells him that he received a message. He checks it and smiles the way he used to with her in the beginning. Her intuition echoes “oh no, it’s that girl from work again.” She slightly growls in her throat, casually inquiring, “Hey babe, who isRead More
I DON’T WANT MY WIFE TO DO THAT: THE MADONNA/WHORE COMPLEX
Today, I participated in a conversation about men who forbade, or rather, disliked for their girlfriends, fiancés, and wives to submit to certain sexual behaviors. As a homophobic society, yes even in 2015, the first thought of many was that a man with this preference must be in the closet or a down low gay man. I believe that is ignorance and fear speaking as I have spoken with quite a few straight men who rather their wives be Madonnas in the bedroom (virginal, inexperienced, pure). As such, I thoughtRead More
