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DEAR CRF, I AM READY TO LEAVE
Dear CRF, I’m currently in a relationship with someone I have known for 5 years. We remained friends for a long time before we decide to be in a relationship. 1, because I needed for him to be correct before we even went there and 2, because I wanted to be ready. In that whole time (4 years I don’t count the first year) we do things for each other that people in a relationships do even though we were just friends. Anything you can think of we do forRead More
CAMILLE COSBY, STAND BY YOUR MAN?
In a case of “stand by your man,” Camille Cosby sends out a statement in support of her husband. I’d expect this from a wife. After all, most criminal’s families are unaware of their criminal activity. Her statement as reported by ABC Unless you’ve been vacationing on the moon, you should know that upwards of 20 women have recently come forward accusing Black America’s favorite dad, Bill Cosby, who portrayed the loveable Heathcliff Huxtable on the Cosby Show television series, of drugging and then raping or sexually assaulting them someRead More
THE SECRET TO RECORD BREAKING LOVE AND MARRIAGE IS…
In 1928, Zelmyra and Herbert Fisher vowed to love each other for a lifetime and boy did they mean it. In 2008, the couple were inducted into the Guinness Book of World Records for breaking the record for the world’s longest marriage. The Fishers were married a total of 87 years. In an interview they were asked their secret to record breaking love and marriage and how they managed to last. The couple says: 1. What made you realize that you could spend the rest of your lives together? WereRead More
GOD, GUILT, & SEXUAL PLEASURE: THE BLACK WOMAN’S DILEMMA
How many times have you been in bed with your partner—doing some kinky awesome ish, floating on a sea of sensation and totally lost in the sauce—when you suddenly felt like your (grand)mother/ mentor/ Sunday school teacher was somewhere looking down at you and shaking their head in disapproval? Did the realization kill your ladyboner fast? Did you freeze up and suddenly feel awful in some type of way? I bet you did. A friend of mine told me, once, she was on her knees handling her man’s business orallyRead More
SEX: DOES IT MATTER WHEN?
A female friend of mine asked me a question. She asked me “If woman sleeps with a man on the first night that she meets him, will he look at her any differently?” There’s two answers to this question. One is the truth and the other is what should be the truth. The truth is that most men will probably look at her differently. What should be the truth is that this shouldn’t matter, and this concept is only exercised by a few of us mature enough to understand thatRead More
