Divorce
THE TROUBLE WITH MODERN DAY MARRIAGE
Marriage in America is facing a variety of novel changes and challenges. I am not referring to the current legal battles regarding who is and is not allowed to marry, but rather the hurdles facing couples who do enter into marriage. Over the past several decades, the nature of marriage has changed. Many people are choosing to live their lives with partners without getting legally married, and Americans are increasingly more approving of this option (Marquart et al., 2012). Unfortunately, people who do marry have roughly a 50 percent chanceRead More
He’s Divorced BUT He’s a Code Red Flag
If you’ve read my book “Flag On the Play (available for purchase here) then you know that “separated means married” and to stay away from separated men. But what about divorced men? They may be single, but that doesn’t mean that they are available; emotionally or other wise. Our friends at Digital Romance have compiled a list of red flags to watch for when dating divorced men. Red Flag #1: He Complains about His Ex Anyone can need to vent from time to time. But when a man complains frequentlyRead More
DL Hughley Advises Battered Women to Keep Quiet
Comedian DL Hughley decided to comment on the Columbus Short domestic violence allegations, but what he had to say was far from humorous. I’d go as far as to say his thought process makes him a #CodeRedFlag. He says, “The star of one of the hottest dramas in the country, chokes the f*ck out of his wife? That doesn’t ever happen. I don’t think it happened first off. Like the time Warren Sapp was getting ready to do the Super Bowl and some broad said that he raped her. ThereRead More
Is Cheating the Norm?
On Wednesday, I was the special guest of The Broken Filter Radio Show. Although I went on the show to promote my new book, Flag On the Play, I was given the opportunity to partake in most of the show. I was warned beforehand by one of the fellas that I was going to be coming into the “men’s locker room” and that some of the things that may be said I wouldn’t want to hear. I said cool, some of my closest friends are men and I have fourRead More
Are You the Marrying Type?
The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married 1. Insist on it; 2. If you find yourself in a dead-end relationship, move on; 3. Love yourself first; 4. Commit yourself to the idea of getting married; 5. Keep in shape, watch your weight, and take care of your appearance; 6. Time is running out—use time wisely in your search for the marrying man. To maximize your chances of marrying, only date the marrying kind: Most men will not consider marriage before they reach the age of commitment: For 80%Read More
