dating advice
DEAR CRF, IT’S BEEN 9 MONTHS, AM I BEING IMPATIENT?
#DearCRF, “I’ve been dating this guy for 9 months today we spend every other weekend together and I’m at his house 3 times or more a week. Or were out of town, he doesn’t want to commit all the way yet he says he wants to really go slow so things don’t mess up. He hasn’t said he loves me yet but does everything that shows me he do. My question is should I ask we’re is this heading or just be patient. I’m a Aries and the wait isRead More
YOU CAN’T HANDLE A STRONG BLACK WOMAN
“If you can’t handle me, it’s because you’re not a strong black man”- aggressive black woman There’s many things I will attempt to explain or rectify in this blog. Why most black men don’t want to deal with aggressive black women, two, out of what need did this aggressive behavior originate from, and last, what can we do to reduce this epidemic. I’m far from an expert, but let me give you a perspective that isn’t influenced by sponsors or a specific demographic. Black men aren’t working, black men aren’tRead More
DEAR CRF, IS IT POSSIBLE TO GO FROM FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS TO A RELATIONSHIP?
Dear CRF, “I been talking to this guy since August. At that time he just got out of a relationship, knew I wanted one but he wasn’t ready. We still talked and got together several times but then I ended it since I wanted more than he was willing to give which was not much. We get along really well and I do really like him. When I ended it, he turned around a month later saying he had himself together and says he is ready now but wants toRead More
ONLY FOOLS RUSH IN
I miss the days when we took time to get to know one another before we jumped head first into sex, situationships, and relationships. Remember when you would meet someone within your network of friends/acquaintances and everyone would hang out together, no pressure? Just being yourself because there were no expectations. Well times have changed; we are now in a popcorn society. Everyone wants what they want now; but when asked, nobody seems to really know what it is they actually want or need. People are no longer building friendshipsRead More
DEAR CRF, SHOULD I REFUSE TO DATE HIM BECAUSE OF HIS JOB?
Dear CRF, “Should a person with a career refuse to date/ reject a person with a restaurant job. I’m an educator and I’m casually chatting with a guy (both are i .our 30s.) He works as a cook at a restaurant, he would like to go out on a date. I shared this with my married sister who says I shouldn’t lower my standards and date a guy with “just a job. ” I feel as long as he is driven, I should give him a chance. I won’t knowRead More
