‪#‎DearCRF‬, “I’ve been dating this guy for 9 months today we spend every other weekend together and I’m at his house 3 times or more a week. Or were out of town, he doesn’t want to commit all the way yet he says he wants to really go slow so things don’t mess up. He hasn’t said he loves me yet but does everything that shows me he do. My question is should I ask we’re is this heading or just be patient. I’m a Aries and the wait is killing me. I mean I’ve meet the family I’m at every function. Am I just being impatient or do I have the right to ask or let things flow”

RESPONSE

As Demetria Lucas of A Belle in Brooklyn fame would say #DontWasteYourPretty. If you’re good with this situationship as is, by all means, continue it. If not, then stop seeing him exclusively until he wants to exclusively be with you. Right now, you are letting him control the direction of the relations between you two. And while I advocate letting a man lead, that doesn’t include men who have not stepped up to the plate to be your man. If he doesn’t know what he wants, and you want more, move right along to find someone who wants what you want.

~Dena Reid, Esq., Founder of Code Red Flag and Author of Flag On the Play: A Woman’s Guide to Finding Mr. Right in a World Full of Mr. Right Nows