June, 2014
Are You Available?
The single life is great! Singles get to go on dates, meet new people, and expand their horizons. But there comes a time when a single man or woman wants to start dating with a purpose, instead of for entertainment. Just remember that dating with a purpose requires you to be AVAILABLE and open to being vulnerable with another. So how does one know if they’re available? You’re available if: – You’re not playing games – Don’t have an ex who you keep on the bench – Believe that thereRead More
Know Better, Choose Better
Women truly dictate the dating market when it comes to men. Whatever it is women glorify, that generation of men will adjust to becoming. See if women really wanted better men (men who were gainfully employed or business owners, treated them as a high quality female subjects to earn, not a sexual objects to attain, were educated, were creative, etc.) they would simply want better men. But see just as the average consumer believes that whatever is on the market, is all that’s available with little variety in between. WomenRead More
Dear CRF, I’m in Love with Two Women
Dear CRF, “I’m in love with two women, if I hadn’t met one, I would be happy with the other. But what do you do when you feel “It” for two women?” CRF RESPONSE You find yourself in quite a dilemma. My first suggestion would be to be honest with yourself. Do you really love these women or are you just loving the affection and attention they are showing you. If you can honestly answer yes you do love them both then you must respect them both enough to tellRead More
Dear CRF, Should I Make Him Wait?
Dear CRF “When first meeting someone who you’re interested in dating…after the first date, why is it suggested to wait a week or so before seeing them again? My friend told me to “make him wait a week or so”, but to me, that seems like game playing. She says it will make him miss me, well we just met, so I am not sure he’d miss me anyway. I know I don’t like when someone plays these games with me, so I am not sure I’d want to doRead More
Check Your Bait
Time after time, I’ve heard men complain about women using them for material gain. It’s a large fear. In fact, as I survey men for book research I am overwhelmed by the amount of them who list fear that a woman will take everything they work for in a divorce as the primary reason they shy away from marriage. How realistic is that fear? Very! It takes one glance at a gossip magazine or a quick click to TMZ to read or see stories of men who are losing millionsRead More
