April, 2014
How to Deal With a Strong Woman
Knowing a strong woman and knowing how to deal with a strong woman are two different things. My mother is a strong woman, but I obeyed her I didn’t date her. My sister is a strong woman, but I fought with her I didn’t date her. So many men are attracted to strong women (resourceful, beautiful, productive, thinking…) but find difficulty with them because they don’t know how to deal with them. In these days and times the strong women they knew were their single mothers, so their experiences areRead More
Dear CRF, He Won’t Be My Facebook Friend
Dear CRF, “What am I supposed to think about a guy who says he wants to be exclusive with me but won’t friend me on Facebook? He says it’s too soon. I feel hurt,rejected and like he’s hiding something” CRF RESPONSE Congratulations on your NEW relationship. I suggest that you don’t allow social media to bring its demise. While some people are very open with their social media accounts, others are not as open. There are people who add everyone who sends a request and others that reserve Facebook forRead More
Dear CRF, Should I Tell Him?
Dear CRF, “I love reading all of your posts about your journey and commitment with remaining celibate. I think it’s great and I pray I can be as strong as you are. Question: How soon after meeting a man do you recommend sharing with him your commitment to God and celibacy. In the beginning were you hesitant to share this information with men? I am finding it very hard to believe men will wait for marriage. Even if the woman has made this commitment NOT to pressure him or manipulateRead More
I’m Just Jealous
Have you ever been out at a social event and run into someone who you were in a current intimate situationship? When I say situationship I am referring to something less than an exclusive relationship but something more than friends. Call it friends with benefits if you will. It’s amazing how these situationships can create feelings of jealousy and insecurity when either party happens upon the other at a social function. Jealousy may occur on either end. One person could ensure the other notices flitatious looks or touches with thoseRead More
Just Not My Type
Often times women are chastised for having too high standards or having a long list of the character preferences they would like in a mate. But how fair is that? Before answering that question let’s define what is meant by the term standard. Dictonary.com defines standards “those morals, ethics, habits, etc., established by authority, custom, or an individual as acceptable.” All of us have standards. Or rather, a foundation of acceptable character details we seek in a mate. For some it is religious or God fearing, for others it mayRead More
