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Who else finds it amazing that although men spend most of their lives chasing after sex, many seem clueless as to the comings (pun intended) and goings of the vagina? A wise man, and a man who is likely to get more sex than the average clueless dude, understands the importance of becoming a connoisseur of his woman’s love box. For those not as wise, here are five things that you need to know.

  1. Hair removal is no walk in the park

Listen fellas, I know many of you prefer a clean-shaven vajajay, but let me be honest with you: Vaginal hair removal is not fun for us ladies. Not even a little bit. Whether we get it waxed or we shave, there isn’t anything amusing about it. Just imagine someone using hot wax to pull the hair, from the root, of your most delicate man part. Is that something that you would be eager to do on a regular basis? I didn’t think so. So, if your lady has a little more hair down there than you would prefer, don’t make a big deal about it and don’t ask her to shave. Just be happy that she has invited you to see it in the first place.

2. Find the G-spot then the A- and O-spots

While most men have heard of the G-spot, many are not familiar with how to stimulate it. Even more, they don’t seem to know that there are other hot spots in the vagina. Fellas, it’s time to do your research. If you want to be the best she’s ever had, then do what no other man before you has done. Find that A-spot and that O-spot and watch how her body reacts for you.

3. Discharge is healthy and normal

Vaginas are leaky! Yes, I said leaky. And guess what? It’s perfectly healthy for them to leak. When we leak, our fluids are actually cleaning our vaginas and getting rid of any bacteria. This is why doctors often tell women that there is no need to use a douche. Our vajayjays are so powerful that they literally clean themselves!

4. The clitoris is your friend

Women like it when their guy pays very close attention to their clitoris before and during sex. But please, please, be gentle with it. No biting, no hard rubbing and switch up the rhythm every now and then. In fact, start slow and go faster as you notice your lady responding to your touch. Go ahead and get a mouthful.

5. Vaginal dryness

Please, let’s not start a brush fire down there. It’s OK to use lubrication to moisten up the vajayjay if necessary. And it just may be necessary, especially as women enter the perimenopausal stage of life. During this stage before menopause, women often experience vaginal dryness. It’s a natural part of the aging process for women. ProHydrate, a new vaginal moisturizing gel from Vagisil, has such a natural feel to it that you can use it daily even prior to being intimate to relieve any vaginal dryness. So don’t start a brush fire; grab some and don’t make a big deal out of it.

Fellas, I hope I was able to enlighten some of you as to the wonders of the vajayjay. The more you know about it, the more you will be able to please it. So, do your research and go get busy. Trust me, your lady will appreciate it and want it more when you know more about how to please her.

This post is sponsored by Vagisil. 
Written by Dena Reid, Esq., Founder of Code Red Flag and Amazon bestselling author of Flag On The Play. Ms. Reid is also a legally trained Conflict Mediator/Coach who specializes in family and domestic disputes. Ms. Reid writes an advice column, hosts events, facilitates workshops, and speaks nationwide on a variety of topics. For more information email info@coderedflag.com.

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