November, 2014
COHABITATION: IS IT A GOOD THING?
Not many people consider cohabitation a part of the relationship experience, because it is known once a couple enters that kinda of commitment. They dont last long, and soon break-apart. There are so many issues and pressures when it comes to living with your partner, space, time, and money. How can you combat it? How can you last longer than most? I myself have been in a cohabiting relationship for about 3 years we celebrated our 3rd year this November. I can admit it hasn’t been an easy sailing street,Read More
10 THINGS LEAVING A 3 YEAR RELATIONSHIP TAUGHT ME
I’ve been avoiding telling this story for quite some time, as it’s a hard one for me. Many of you may (or may not) know that Mister K is not my boyfriend’s father. I was actually with his dad for about 3 years before I finally decided I had enough and left. It wasn’t an easy decision, and it definitely wasn’t made overnight. But after years of dealing with it, I realized I deserved better – we deserved better. We met when we were young – i was only 17.Read More
DEAR CRF, HE MAKES ME FEEL BAD WHEN I ASK HIM FOR MONEY
Dear CRF, “I’m a stay at home mom. Right now I have 4 kids and my husband works. It seems like lately everytime I ask my husband for some money he’s bitching and complaining about it! He doesn’t buy anything in the house he gives me money and I go shop for everything that we need. From kids clothes to household product, stuff for him and myself when I don’t feel guilty for purchasing something new for myself. He has no clue as to how much anything cost but thenRead More
DEAR CRF, HE WANTS TO DATE OTHER PEOPLE
DEAR CRF, “The guy I’m dating has decided that he wants to date other women. So much so, that he told me that he won’t be available this weekend because another women is flying into town to spend the weekend with him. He doesn’t see the issue and says I can do the same. What do y’all think? Is this a red flag?” RESPONSE Because of how I date, for me this is a red flag, stop sign, hazardous condition, game over statement. I’ve never been one to date multipleRead More
DEAR CRF, WHAT IF MARRIAGE IS MY GOAL?
Dear CRF, “Marriage is the goal for some people and not for others. With that being said, would you date someone knowing that they are looking for a level of companionship (not marriage) with the hopes of changing their mind? Or just let it go? And if you do enter in said relationship, do you get mad at that person because, they aren’t willing to change?” RESPONSE You’ll be facing an uphill battle if you choose someone whose life goals don’t match yours. If you want to be married dateRead More
