Thursday, October 24th, 2013


Dear CRF, Are Black Men Making Themselves Obsolete?

Dear CRF, My mother and I had a conversation yesterday. She says that black men are making themselves obsolete. She says they don’t want to put in the time, effort or money to date a black woman, they don’t know their position as a man in the household and they are running away from raising their children in droves. I happen to agree with my mother. I was married to a black man who pretended to be a man like my father while we were dating. My father is anRead More

10 Ways to Work on Your Marriage Before You’re Married

The best time to work on your marriage is before you’re married. If you are single, here are 10 things you can do now to prepare for strong matrimony. 1) Stop Falling in Love with Potential Having a healthy relationship with your partner means loving them for who stands before you today, not the hope of who they will be tomorrow. Falling in love with potential is a mistake. 2) Love Yourself More I’m not talking about looking in the mirror and saying, “I look good.” Loving yourself is aboutRead More