September, 2015
I WANNA LOVE LIKE THAT
Saturday morning in one of my Facebook groups, a question was posed to the group members inquiring if we had given up on love. Immediately, the question received several responses in which men and women affirmed that they had thrown in the towel. One guy expressed that the wall around his heart was up and he was unsure if it would ever come down. Another stated that the vivid dreams of getting married and having children has become blurry. One lady even declared that she hadn’t given up on loveRead More
YOU’LL WISH YOU NEVER MET HIM
Most of us reach a point of maturity in our lives where we want to settle down. Where we want somebody that is compatible, somebody who meets most of our expectations, and most importantly, somebody who is going to be there and love us for the long haul. Through our various experiences dating, we have come to terms with what this mate should be like. Through consensus, most women feel like they need to meet a man who is completely focused on them. A man who from the beginning putsRead More
WHAT ARE YOU BRINGING TO THE TABLE?
Recently a friend of mine posted this on Facebook and my blood immediately began to boil. This is what he posted: “I meet so many women who will block their own blessing by EXPECTING a man to bring something to the imaginary table. When in reality if u holding it down it shouldn’t matter what he brings, cause u got this. #strongindependent #idontneednoman“ That is totally some BULLSH*T! Here’s the thing, it’s not an expectation but a REQUIREMENT for a man to bring something to the table. If a womanRead More
DEAR CRF, IS HE DESPERATE OR OBSESSED WITH ME?
Dear CRF, “I like this guy and he likes me however, he comes across like that he’s desperate for a relationship or something or that he’s obsessed with me. There were times that he asked his friends about me like asking me what my name was or if I was so n so. He gets mad if I talk to other guys or to my guy friends. If there were some kind of love songs being played he would stare at me. Or just be staring at me all night.Read More
BE SPONTANEOUS: 3 STEPS TO DATING
On Valentine’s Day 3 years ago, our first as a married couple was a really unexpected spontaneous night out. Our Original plans were to go out with some friends for group Valentine’s outing. But all our friends bailed on us. We were not going to let the babysitter (grandparents) go to waste so we made our own fun. We took a leap of faith and went to an unknown place just because we saw a deal coupon online. I love being spontaneous but my Ex-Marine hubby usually needs a planRead More
