September, 2014
FRAT BOYS ALLEGEDLY ROOFIE PARTY GOERS
The University of Wisconsin has a scandal on its hands. One of their Greek Houses are being accused of giving female party goers the date rape drug known as roofies. The Chapter of Tau Kappa Epsilon is under investigation after several women in attendance at a recent party alleged that something may have been slipped into their drinks. While the Chapter has yet to comment, sources say one Frat Brother has been arrested. Ladies, as a former bartender let me share some advice. Never take a drink you didn’t seeRead More
FIGHTING TO PROVE YOUR LOVE
One of my favorite lines from The Five Heartbeats is, “Every night I gotta fight to prove my love.” That line works in movies, in real life not so much. Just ask Keyshia Cole who was arrested recently for assaulting a woman she found at her supposed boyfriend’s house at 5 o’clock in the morning. Ms. Cole was arrested, as she should be, and had to pay a $46k bail bond to be released. This is Code Red Flag behavior. You find out/catch your man cheating on you then yourRead More
WHY DO WE STAY?
Do we stay in bad relationships, even when it hurts? I for one, have been involved in a bad relationship in the past, and stayed way too long! At first, I told myself things would get better, but it never did – the unfaithfulness continued. There are never any advantages in staying in a loveless or unrewarding relationship. While I thought I loved him and he me, I came to realize it was a relationship built on lies, physical attraction and convenience. After a while, it becomes a habit ofRead More
WHEN YOU’RE MAD
You know what? I hate arguing. Even more so, I hate arguing when it doesn’t look like we are getting anywhere. Especially if it means fighting all night. I use to subscribe to the ‘never go to bed angry’ way of thinking, but, after a while, I realized just how selfish and silly it is. Of course no one likes arguing and no one like going to bed angry but if while you and your s/o are fighting and a resolution nor and end seems to be in sight, someoneRead More
DEAR CRF, CAN I KEEP THE RING?
DEAR CRF, “Here’s My question. A man proposes to you while He’s living with you, splits bills and all. He bought a wedding band set. He gives you engagement ring but after several months becomes physically abusive. You love him but not ready to let things go. Do you give back engagement ring, wedding band or both. He lives with you so you have access to wedding band. He just needs to stop the lies and abuse to make it work. No cheating involved… just drunken lies and drunken abuse.”Read More
