August, 2014
What NOT to do when you realize you have a cheating spouse
Lately you’ve been suspicious of your significant other. They appear to be taking better care of themselves, spending more time showering, getting dressed and more concerned with their appearance. He or she even went ahead and got that gym membership that you talked about at the beginning of the year. Initially, you were glad to know that all of the so called nagging you’ve been doing has finally paid off. Then it hits you. Not only are they more concerned with their physical appearance, but their new found confidence hasRead More
THE TROUBLE WITH MODERN DAY MARRIAGE
Marriage in America is facing a variety of novel changes and challenges. I am not referring to the current legal battles regarding who is and is not allowed to marry, but rather the hurdles facing couples who do enter into marriage. Over the past several decades, the nature of marriage has changed. Many people are choosing to live their lives with partners without getting legally married, and Americans are increasingly more approving of this option (Marquart et al., 2012). Unfortunately, people who do marry have roughly a 50 percent chanceRead More
DEAR CRF, IS HE IN A RELATIONSHIP?
DEAR CRF, “Here’s my new question. There’s a guy that works at the grocery store near my job. For months he’s been giving me looks, asking me how i am and asking to hang out, if i have a boyfriend etc. I had a boyfriend so i couldn’t do anything. Now i am single. The problem is, on his Facebook page it says he’s in a relationship w some girl. Today i finally let him give me his number, but before that i asked if he has a girlfriend. HeRead More
100% Trust is Emotional Fiction, Not Intimate Fact
100% trust is fiction. We don’t even trust OURSELVES 100%, yet many of us have the ridiculous idea that we’re supposed to be able to trust someone else 100% before they’re ‘worthy’ our ‘love’. The ‘100% trust’ fallacy is a cornerstone that the demise of many relationships is built on – many before they even start. The whole idea of 100% trust has somehow become synonymous with “You can NEVER intentionally lie, cheat, or let me down.” Therefore, as soon as you “mess up” – which is inevitable, by theRead More
THE GOOD’S KEEPER
Fellas, if a lady has not agreed to a commitment with you, YOU’RE NOT THE KEEPER OF THE GOODS (In my Maury voice). If she talks to you, texts you, goes out with you, and she does not CLAIM you, then YOU’RE NOT THE KEEPER OF THE GOODS. Soooooooo, when you hear she may be allowing another man her attention, go ahead with that “These Hoes Ain’t Loyal Crap” (save that for real hoes). That is just a cop out to keep from having to work for what you want.Read More
