CAN YOU BE SINGLE FOR TOO LONG?
You’ve been single for too long! Is there such a thing as being single for too long? Today, I shared a meme which had the position that people who are single for too long are the hardest to love. The reasoning behind the meme was that these people, because they’ve had no one else to consider when making life decisions, are often too set in their ways to compromise. And as we all should know, compromise is key to having a successful and long lasting relationship. However, I’m not sure IRead More
YOU’RE SINGLE BECAUSE YOU’RE FAKE!
Being fake makes you a Code Red Flag. There are no good men, they are either married, in jail, or homosexual. There are no good women; they are either chasing after Mr. Wrong, hoes, or homosexual. We have all heard some derivative of both of these statements. We may have even said them ourselves. However, at a certain age, and point in your life you have to start asking if you are the problem. Think about it, if you seem to only attract the wrong type, and have been chronicallyRead More
GRRRR! SO AGGRESSIVE: Women who need to be in control
“If you can’t handle me, it’s because you’re not a strong black man”- aggressive black woman Dear Women I Haven’t Slept With, There’s many things I will attempt to explain or rectify in this blog. Why most black men don’t want to deal with aggressive black women, two, out of what need did this aggressive behavior originate from, and last, what can we do to reduce this epidemic. I’m far from an expert, but let me give you my opinion. Black men aren’t working, black men aren’t succeeding, black menRead More
YOU’LL WISH YOU NEVER MET HIM
Most of us reach a point of maturity in our lives where we want to settle down. Where we want somebody that is compatible, somebody who meets most of our expectations, and most importantly, somebody who is going to be there and love us for the long haul. Through our various experiences dating, we have come to terms with what this mate should be like. Through consensus, most women feel like they need to meet a man who is completely focused on them. A man who from the beginning putsRead More
YOU KNOW WHY YOU’RE SINGLE & SO DO I.
Dear women I haven’t slept with, You know why the hell you’re still single and so do I. “If you can’t handle me, it’s because you’re not a strong man”- aggressive woman. No, it’s because you want to be me in the relationship and I’m not having it! Why would a successful man with options choose you? What do you offer? You make 6 figures, you have a successful career, you’re independent, you have your own place, your own money. Guess what? When it comes to us picking what womenRead More