dating advice
YOU’RE SINGLE BECAUSE YOU’RE FAKE!
Being fake makes you a Code Red Flag. There are no good men, they are either married, in jail, or homosexual. There are no good women; they are either chasing after Mr. Wrong, hoes, or homosexual. We have all heard some derivative of both of these statements. We may have even said them ourselves. However, at a certain age, and point in your life you have to start asking if you are the problem. Think about it, if you seem to only attract the wrong type, and have been chronicallyRead More
PLAY THE GAME TO WIN!
On my way into work today, I was perusing some comments on a topic in a group. The topic was based around how to handle the period between dating, and “exclusivity” with regards to sharing information, and a person’s sexual exploits with people OUTSIDE of the dating relationship (aka how you play the game). The answers were diverse, but as I was reading over them some trends emerged that caused a realization: Many of us are failing in our committed relationships and marriages, because we fail to prepare properly forRead More
SORRY, HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU
Some young lady is sitting here reading this blog right now racking her brain trying to figure out where she stands with the guy she has been seeing. She is dreading the “what are we” conversation but she has finally grown tired of not knowing where she stands. He’s convinced her that “what’s understood doesn’t need to be defined” and blah, blah, blah. They’ve been talking and “kicking it” but she has no clue where this is going or if he really even likes her. What should be simple additionRead More
BE SPONTANEOUS: 3 STEPS TO DATING
On Valentine’s Day 3 years ago, our first as a married couple was a really unexpected spontaneous night out. Our Original plans were to go out with some friends for group Valentine’s outing. But all our friends bailed on us. We were not going to let the babysitter (grandparents) go to waste so we made our own fun. We took a leap of faith and went to an unknown place just because we saw a deal coupon online. I love being spontaneous but my Ex-Marine hubby usually needs a planRead More
DEAR CRF, MY BOYFRIEND’S KIDS WANT TO CALL ME MOMMY
Dear CRF, I’ve been dating my my boyfriend for a few months now. We’ve known each other for a year and four months now. We both have children from other people. He has 2 daughters and 1 son and I have 3 sons. His daughters are curious and want to know if they could call me mom. I am leery of this because their Dad and our relationship is still fresh. Both kids adore us and love hanging out with us. My question is what should be the best adviceRead More
