sex
FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT?
You’re making love and she seems really into it, I mean really really into it. She’s breathing heavy, her toes are curling, she’s screaming your name and finally you climax. You roll off of her into the spooning position and ask, “did you orgasm?” And she says no. What, that can’t be! What were all the theatrics about? Well, a recent study shows that a whopping 85% of women make noise during sex to BOOST THEIR LOVER’S EGO! Not because she was lost in ecstasy, but because she wants youRead More
DEAR CRF, SHOULD I CARE
Dear Code Red Flag, Should I care that my man watches porn? Is it really bad? CRF Response The only person who can answer that question is you. There are some couples who incorporate porn into their intimate relationships. Then there are others who think watching porn, as well as maturbating is cheating. Neither is right or wrong, per se. It all comes down to what you feel comfortable with. If your mate watching porn makes you uncomfortable then I suggest you reevaluate if that person is the one forRead More
SHOULD YOU TEST DRIVE BEFORE BUYING?
So here is the deal. You think you have finally met your match. All things that matter are in sync….except you have not yet been intimate with your mate. Perhaps the timing has not been right or you want to maintain your virtue until marriage or reach a certain stage in your relationship. I get it! Rightfully so, you should wait until you are ready and comfortable to be physical, develop a trusting bond and know where you stand. Now ask yourself this question. How important is sexual compatibility inRead More
DEAR CRF, HE’S JUST A FRIEND
DEAR CRF, “My man says that he’s jealous when I’m around a male friend of mine who I’ve had a past with but it’s over and done with. However, my man says he feels that my male friend still has feelings for me. Should I stop hanging out with him or should I tell my man to check his jealousy? Is this a #CRF?” CRF RESPONSE It’s easy to call him jealous and insecure but in this situation, if roles were reversed, how secure would you be? I’m not sayingRead More
SEXTING THE GOODES?
So am I to understand that the church folk are up in arms that Meagan Goode sent her husband, who is a pastor, nude photos? Please have several seats, grab your Bible, and read the Songs of Solomon and learn something about love, marriage, sex, and pleasuring your spouse. The marital bed isn’t just for missionary. No wonder so many women in church are single and waiting on Jesus to send them a man. Then when he does, you have no clue what to do with him. Don’t be madRead More
