red flag
DEAR CRF, HE WANTS TO DATE OTHER PEOPLE
DEAR CRF, “The guy I’m dating has decided that he wants to date other women. So much so, that he told me that he won’t be available this weekend because another women is flying into town to spend the weekend with him. He doesn’t see the issue and says I can do the same. What do y’all think? Is this a red flag?” RESPONSE Because of how I date, for me this is a red flag, stop sign, hazardous condition, game over statement. I’ve never been one to date multipleRead More
DEAR CRF, HE’S JUST A FRIEND
DEAR CRF, “My man says that he’s jealous when I’m around a male friend of mine who I’ve had a past with but it’s over and done with. However, my man says he feels that my male friend still has feelings for me. Should I stop hanging out with him or should I tell my man to check his jealousy? Is this a #CRF?” CRF RESPONSE It’s easy to call him jealous and insecure but in this situation, if roles were reversed, how secure would you be? I’m not sayingRead More
THE PERVERT NEXT DOOR
What happens when you find out your next door neighbor has been arrested on charges of child pornography? If you’re Massachusettes resident, Nicole Pelletier, mother of two, you become a vigilante who seeks justice through a swift butt kicking. The neighbor, 61 year old Gary Spring, was arrested on possession of child pornography charges on September 19th. On September 22nd, Spring was startled awake when Pelletier punched him in the face as he slept in his bed. She later called the police to report her crime, telling the police dispatcherRead More
FIGHTING TO PROVE YOUR LOVE
One of my favorite lines from The Five Heartbeats is, “Every night I gotta fight to prove my love.” That line works in movies, in real life not so much. Just ask Keyshia Cole who was arrested recently for assaulting a woman she found at her supposed boyfriend’s house at 5 o’clock in the morning. Ms. Cole was arrested, as she should be, and had to pay a $46k bail bond to be released. This is Code Red Flag behavior. You find out/catch your man cheating on you then yourRead More
RECOGNIZE GAME
Game recognize game! “A manipulative man can spot a vulnerable woman a mile away. “ Gwendolyn Owens (Real Talk) Ladies, do you really know your worth? Do you recognize the red flags? If you are not getting what you need and want, then it’s time to say BYE BYE!!! Don’t try to force a relationship to work! If he is a liar, only sees you at night (at your place), you can only call at certain times, he hasn’t introduced you to his close friends and family and he’s askingRead More
