ex-boyfriend
DEAR CRF, SHOULD I DELETE THE PICS?
DEAR CRF, “Is it a code red flag to have older pictures of your ex on your phone/facebook when dating someone new? For perspective you were with your ex for about 8 years and with this new person for about a month. Or is it a code red flag for the new person to be upset over old pictures and request that you delete them?” CRF RESPONSE Everyone has a history. Be more concerned with your present and future with your new mate. Don’t go looking for red flags whereRead More
DEAR CRF, HE’S JUST A FRIEND
DEAR CRF, “My man says that he’s jealous when I’m around a male friend of mine who I’ve had a past with but it’s over and done with. However, my man says he feels that my male friend still has feelings for me. Should I stop hanging out with him or should I tell my man to check his jealousy? Is this a #CRF?” CRF RESPONSE It’s easy to call him jealous and insecure but in this situation, if roles were reversed, how secure would you be? I’m not sayingRead More
Is Cheating the Norm?
On Wednesday, I was the special guest of The Broken Filter Radio Show. Although I went on the show to promote my new book, Flag On the Play, I was given the opportunity to partake in most of the show. I was warned beforehand by one of the fellas that I was going to be coming into the “men’s locker room” and that some of the things that may be said I wouldn’t want to hear. I said cool, some of my closest friends are men and I have fourRead More
Is All Really Fair in Love & War
Why do some people take the breakup of someone else’s relationship to heart? Some people will hear one side and take it as law, forgetting that there are two sides to every story. Some for whatever reason will get so emotionally attached to one person that they forget that it takes 2 to make a thing go right, and wrong. Being objective is thrown out the window in favor of thinking emotionally, which is an oxymoron all because something happened to someone else. Girl don’t worry, I’m going to cutRead More
Chapter 1 Flag On the Play: A Woman’s Guide to Finding Mr. Right in a World Full of Mr. Right Nows.
Chapter 1 Mr. Hudson River Valley: ‘Separated’ Means Married The Hudson River separates New York from New Jersey, but they are both still connected to it. For most women there is a “valley” of sadness surrounding being with a married person. Most women don’t want to share a man, they want their own man! But somehow, so many of us get caught up making the excuse, “but he’s separated,” and believing all the stories (read: lies) about how horrible his wife is. Ladies, trust me, I speak from experience. WhenRead More
