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ARE YOU SPEAKING HIS LOVE LANGUAGE?

If you aren’t speaking his love language are you truly loving him to the best of your ability? Before you answer that question, ask yourself, Am I loving him the way I want to be loved or the way he needs to be loved. Yes, there is a difference. Love is much more than just a feeling. It is a series of actions and choices one makes every day that illustrate that you hold your love interest dear to you. However, your actions may say love to you while theyRead More


CONFESSIONS OF AN ENABLER

I ran into my ex the other day. This was not the first time our paths crossed after I escaped the toxic, abusive relationship I had with him. But, it was the first time we spoke. After exchanging pleasantries I noticed he was drunk; not tipsy, but drunk…sloppy. That is a regular state of being for him. Through the night I watched as this man groped random women, stumbled over his own two feet, and come close to getting into several fist fights (yes, I stepped in to save himRead More


IS THIS A RELATIONSHIP OR A PRISON?

You can’t do that. You can’t wear that. You can’t go there. Wait, I thought I signed up for a relationship, I didn’t know it would come with a prison sentence. Is this a relationship or are you your mate’s captive prisoner? While it is wonderful to want to do things with your mate, for your mate, or to please your mate having them be mandatory clauses takes away free will. That is not what relationships are about; at least not in this day and age. Why do people feelRead More


YOU, ME, & SHE: 3’s Company

One of the reasons that relationships fail is that we have too many outside parties involved in our relationships. We all have friends, some closer than others, and we at times confide in these people. These are the people that have supported us in our times of greatness and at our lowest moments. We sometimes look to them for answers when we lack clarity or are too emotionally infused to find our own resolves. Friends can be wonderful assets. But just like a coin has two sides, friends can alsoRead More


I WANT YOU TO MAKE ME CUM!

Now that I have your attention, let’s talk about sex. Yesterday, I saw one of those silly main chick versus side chick memes that suggested that main chicks are denying their mates mind blowing sex. Furthermore, the suggestion is that if a man wants to have great, mind blowing, hard to forget sex he can only do that with a woman who is not his woman. You see, many fellas commented that even if the side chick gets upgraded (for lack of a better term because we all know beingRead More


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