July, 2015

 

DEAR CRF, MY BOYFRIEND’S KIDS WANT TO CALL ME MOMMY

Dear CRF, I’ve been dating my my boyfriend for a few months now. We’ve known each other for a year and four months now. We both have children from other people. He has 2 daughters and 1 son and I have 3 sons. His daughters are curious and want to know if they could call me mom. I am leery of this because their Dad and our relationship is still fresh. Both kids adore us and love hanging out with us. My question is what should be the best adviceRead More


BEING VULNERABLE FOR LOVE

So a few weeks ago I wrote about being vulnerable and not letting fear keep us from love.  And while that authenticity was glorious to write, it is soooooooooooooo much harder to practice.  I’ll be the first to admit, I was sipping some sugary, love flavored kool-aid a few weeks ago.  My head was in the clouds as I believed that I had found that special one.  I had it bad! The feeling was similar to plunging into a Babyface pre-divorce daydream (“I’ll cook your food, I’ll buy your clothes”).Read More


DEAR CRF, HE’S BEEN DIVORCED TWICE!

Dear CRF, “Is it a red flag for a man under 40 to have 2 divorces under his belt? He says they both of his ex wives cheated on him. He seems to be a very loving attentive guy so far. I haven’t seen him in over 20 years. He has one child from the last marriage. He was in the military.” RESPONSE The only red flag would be the possibility that he’s a guy who jumps from relationship to relationship and he’s quick to get married. Find out moreRead More


DEAR CRF, SHE’S STILL FRIENDS WITH HER EX

‪Dear CRF‬, “Me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months. She has this male best friend whom she’s known for over 20 years. He’s been around since we’ve been dating, and I was cool with it. I didn’t see an issue with her having male friends considering that I had female friends. Last month, I went to a family gathering of hers. This was the first time I met her cousins, aunts, and uncles. At one point at this gathering, my girlfriend and her male best friend wereRead More


MISTRESS & WIFE DEAD IN APPARENT MURDER SUICIDE

Kidnapping, a high speed Chase across state lines, murder, and suicide. This isn’t the plot for a new movie. It’s the sad reality for a grieving family today. Authorities say that Sandra Barnett, a 58 year old special needs teacher from  Ellenwood, Georgia was kidnapped from her home by her husband’s mistress. The kidnapping was reported by Barnett’s fried who saw a suspicious looking black Durango truck parked outside the victim’s home. According to those close to her, Barnett had just replaced the locks on the gate to her yardRead More


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