July, 2014
10 Reasons Why He Cheated
Cheating hurts. Often women question why the man who claimed to love them would cheat. Well, the Huffington Post has created a list from 10 male cheaters. Do any of these reasons make the cheating easier to handle? 1. Someone was pursuing me. “I’ll [sleep with] a woman to settle my curiosity. It has nothing to do with what my main girl is not doing, it’s just, someone offered, and I was curious and wanted to test the water.” –“Doug,” 42 2. She’s not freaky enough. “I want oral sex.Read More
I Hate My Fiancé’s Mother
Dear CRF, “What do you do when your soon to be mother in law is a certified bitch and your man won’t defend you against her disrespect?” CRF RESPONSE Having problems with mother in laws is not a new phenomenon. It happens more often that you’d think. I don’t know the women so I won’t speculate on her reasons for treating you harshly. What I can discuss with you is how to handle her, if you choose, and your fiancé. Let’s begin with him. First, let’s show some empathy becauseRead More
It’s Better To Be Single Than In A Bad Relationship
We’ve all been there—that sick feeling in your stomach and the heavy wave of anxiety that washes over you when you realize your relationship is definitely not working. Maybe you’ve been fighting about everything, nit-picking each other to death, or dealing with more serious issues like infidelity or polar-opposite life goals. But here’s the part that’s often even harder: Deciding whether or not to stay in the comfort of this crappy relationship or go back out into the dating world, which, from the outside, can look like a very scaryRead More
Purposefully Dating
I am no love expert. I just used to be the girl that day dreamed about having my own special romance. I would often admire couples that appeared to be deeply in love. I wanted to know what that felt like. To have someone feel the same way for me as I did them. I wondered what made the girls in serious relationships so special that they landed into such a beautiful position. Was is beauty? Was it maturity? Was I not looking in the right places for these guys?Read More
In Case of Emergency
I’m going to get straight to the point. I was on Facebook earlier today (I’m usually on there 90% of my day- just kidding. Or am I?), and saw a hilarious meme that my cousin posted on her page. The comedian Mo’Nique was at the center, and several curse words surrounded her with a message for the women out there regarding sexual relations ( Google it- it’s pretty funny). Although my cousin’s message said it a bit differently, I thought this was great advice for my ladies out there: It’sRead More
