May, 2014
Give Me a Break!
Or some space, time to think, etc. are some phrases that make relationships even harder then they have to be. Often, breaks, space, and time are just precursors for the inevitable; a break up. But when is a break just a break? When is space just space? When is time just a moment to reflect to come back stronger and better than ever? Often, these phrases are used by those who are uncomfortable with having the break up talk. Instead of using our communication skills, which ultimately is the causeRead More
Break Up Without Being Broken
What is a break up? Well, we experience break ups in several different ways. Either we have been hurt, or hurt the other, break up friendly or in a huge fight. All ends up the same. A break up is the most painful thing next to the death of someone close to you. Love is a powerful tool in our lives that gives us hope, makes us happy, inspires us and brings us forward in all kind of ways. Love is like flying…but when we attach those feelings to anotherRead More
Dear CRF, What Are the Rules?
Dear CRF, “What are the real rules in dating? I’m new to the dating scene and my question is if I’m not in an exclusive boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is it fair or right to go out on dates with different men. And there’s is no sex involved what’s so ever either. I need your help I’m not sure which way is right.” CRF RESPONSE The only rule I have for dating is based on the Golden Rule, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” ButRead More
DL Hughley Advises Battered Women to Keep Quiet
Comedian DL Hughley decided to comment on the Columbus Short domestic violence allegations, but what he had to say was far from humorous. I’d go as far as to say his thought process makes him a #CodeRedFlag. He says, “The star of one of the hottest dramas in the country, chokes the f*ck out of his wife? That doesn’t ever happen. I don’t think it happened first off. Like the time Warren Sapp was getting ready to do the Super Bowl and some broad said that he raped her. ThereRead More
How to Deal With a Strong Woman pt 2
When last we left we were on #4 and a man must have initiative. I must admit I am overwhelmed with the comments. Strong women don’t mix words and to have such positive response means a lot. Before I begin again, let me help you understand why this is so important to me. Simply put I know the struggle first hand and thank God for it. Because there is nothing more attractive than a strong woman but in order to have one I needed to identify some things. For someRead More
