Friday, December 20th, 2013


Dear CRF, Since When Do I Need Permission?

Dear Code Red Flag, “I recently broke up with my children’s father after 11yrs. We have two daughters together and I also have an older daughter from a previous relationship (which he didn’t meet until a yr after dating! I just don’t get down like that, bringing men around my children so easily). Anyway, the convo came up about me eventually dating, which I’m no where near ready to do at this point, but he stated that when the time comes he would have to not only meet the manRead More

The Golden Rule

Treat others as you’d like to be treated. It seems simple enough, but we seem to forget this when we get into relationships.  Absurd and completely out of line behavior has been confessed on the CodeRedFlag page and it seems like the people guilty simply laugh it off without thinking of how they’d react if put in the same position.  When often challenged, they counter “Oh my significant other wouldn’t DREAM of pulling that on me” Um… then why are you doing it to them?  How is that fair?    It’s true that life’sRead More